Years ago, I had an interesting couple attend one of my couples dance nights. First of all, the guy didn't know where his partner was taking him, so, needless to say, there was a bit of apprehension to start off with! The night began with them arguing over the steps and being quite fiery with each other. By the end of the dance night, however, the guy was totally empowered as a leader in the dance and was leading his partner around the dance floor with confidence and elegance. I love seeing that kind of transformation - especially within three hours; it's so fulfilling as a dance instructor!